By Sam Akadoro Special Correspondent, Sapele
‘To dust thou commest and to dust thou goest” were the words of the officiating priest that sealed the earthly sojourn of late Mrs.
Christiana Uviejitobor Orumere (nee Faruku).
According to her children, family members and community leaders, Mrs Orumere lived a vibrant and successful life and positively touched the
lives of her children and the entire community. She hailed from Egini community, Udu local government area of Delta where she was also committed to earth.
She surpassed the biblical three scores and 10 years as she clocked 74 years before the cold hands of death snatched her from her loved ones.
Mrs. Christiana Orumere was the mother of Chief Peter Okagbare Uviejitobor, a successful industrialist and merchant of cement, iron rods and other construction materials. Uviejitobor, a political scientist, is a member of the transition committee of the Udu local government area and is
also a high Chief of the Udu Kingdom. According to him, “I find it difficult to write, read and hear my mother being referred to in the past tense, but we would move on because I know she is always present. Mama, as I called her, loved me so much, believed so much in me and had such a strong faith in me that I should always take care of my brothers, sisters and relatives which I promised to do. But today my mother, you have gone ahead of us.”
Uviejitobor noted that he remembered the love and selfless devotion her mother showed to him and his brothers and sisters, pointing out that even in pain and sickness, she wanted the children to be comfortable and happy. He said that the mother gave her best at ensuring that they got the best from life, adding that the mother was selfless, accommodating, humble, and sincere, open minded and related well, was selfless, telling educating stories to the children and visitors with uncommon
frankness.
He described his mother as loving, caring, hardworking industrious, kind and mindful of other people’s welfare, adding that she taught them to be industrious, kind, humble, selfless, giver and helper to others and above faithful Christians.
“Mama, you lived a wonderful and fulfilled life. The legacy you left behind is great. Your name will surely be immortalised; you died in Christ. May you continue to live with our Lord Jesus Christ forever, Amen.”
Mrs. Christiana Uviejitobor Orumere was born on 15th February 1940 at Egini to the
late Mr Faruku Abakpovwunuta and late Mrs. Maduku Osio of Magburu
family in Ekregbenyevwen quarters of Usiefurun in Ughelli South local government area, Delta State.
Her birth was said to be a thing of joy to the family. Mama, as she was
fondly called, did not have Western education although she was
thoroughly educated in the customs and traditions of the Urhobo in
general and the Udu/Ughievwen communities in particular and suffice to note that
all her children are graduates before her heavenly sojourn.
Mama had a blissful married life as she married in the traditional and church systems to Chief Julius Uviejitobor Orumere of Ekreseha
quarters of Orhuwhorum in Udu local government area of Delta State and
the marriage was blessed with nine children, one was a female
child.
According to elders who knew her closely, Mama as a young girl lived with her family, dedicated her time assisting the family searching for opportunities and ventured into mat making business in Egini before she started her tailoring career as soon as she got married in 1958. She began to sell before she went into the sales of garri as a distributor with
its attendant risks and stress of long distance traveling. She also delved into the business of selling fish and on the advice of her children traded in timber which had reduced risks and stress.
Mama was described as a devoted Christian after converting from idol worship in 1958 to become a strong Catholic Church member. She got
baptised in 1958 according to the Catholic faith.
However, mama was said to have converted to the Christ Missionaries
Crusaders International and got baptised again by water immersion according to the Pentecostal faith and since them remained a faithful
member of Christ Missionaries Crusaders Church, Koloko branch,
Enerhen.
Mama was a member of the women prayer group, she was a great oral historian and a humour merchant and was said to be a peace
maker and a unifying force of the family, friends and the community who brought the entire family and her extended family into a peaceful co-existence throughout her earthly sojourn.
In Mama’s last days she was said to be entertaining as she called all her children by their nicknames, showed appreciation, cracked jokes, “asked about our well being and that of those we left at home whenever she was visited”.
By her death, according to the children, they lost a rare gem, a pillar of justice and peace, symbol of unity, love, humility and kindness, informing that Mama was survived by a brother, a husband, eight children, 20 grand children, two great grand children, four sons-in-law, four
daughters-in-law, cousins and relatives.
In the continuation of their tributes to their late mother, Engr. Efe Uviejitobor noted, “Sweet Mother, your inspiration and prayers you gave to me made me complete my project in the month of March 2014. Mama you could not wait to see the completed project before you passed on to the great beyond even my wife you always nursed on how best she could take care of her pregnancy gave birth this month just after death snatched you away from us.”
Efe pointed out that he wished Mama could wait and see her 20th grandchild and the completion of the project whispered by her,
adding that he would not have cried so much when he was writing the tribute. He said he missed Mama so much but “God Almighty loves you most hence He has chosen to take you at His own will and time. Just some weeks to share my blessings, God’s ways according to Him are not men’s ways,” adding that in life “there is a season and time, there is time to be born and a time to die, and mama has completed her life circle”. He
described mama as a source of inspiration to many people who looked upon her for direction and guidance, a unifying source and he cannot
forget her love and prayers towards the children and prayed that he would have mama again as a mother if God permits.
For Barrister Lawrantta Edigbe who went poetic, “Mamaly, Mumskoko, Mama human, smile and open your hands for me to run to and receive
your usual embrace, Sincerely mama I miss you to the extent I want to come over to the mortuary just to hug you and tell you once again how
much I love you. Your love for us was so strong that you corrected us with love and never used the cane on us because you felt no time was
right to beat a child, You care so much about us that even on your sick bed you still woke up midnight to pray for us and worried over little illness like headache disturbing us. You were such an awesome mother that every breath of my being will keep praying that in my next
life you will be my mother. Rest in peace till I see you in heaven
….hugs”
.
Ose Eseoghene, a grand child said, “Mama, its so painful I never met you the way I left before I want to school, you are the only woman without
known mistakes, you treated everyone equally. You were my role model and heroine.”
Others who paid tributes to Mama included, Engr Akpeve Uviejitober, Engr. John Uviejitobor, Grace Uviejitobor, Hben Uviejitobor, Anote
Uviejitobor, Omo Uviejitobor, Honda Gomet, Hon. Oyibo Yarhere, Peterson Diakpa, Evans Eferakeyen Oghenetega, Barr. Dick, Fidelis Umukoro and others.
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