By Felix Igbekoyi – Asaba
To the regular passerby of Illah, a relatively rustic part of Oshimili North Local Government Area of Delta State, Ogbe Ogede village in Ukwumege is just another community. But on March 21despair, grief, sorrow with a tinge of hope and satisfaction for a well-spent life was thick in the air. And beneath the quiet and rather sullen mien of Mary, wife of the late Ogbuenyi John Chukwumah Ojidoh, a retired referee and educationist, was gratitude to God for an accomplished life.
Ensconced on one of the sofas of a neat living room at his country home in Ukwumege, she received guests, who trickled in to offer their condolences.
‘‘I have lost a very good friend, loving husband and confidant that was always there to support and listen to me attentively,’’ Mary said.
Ojidoh, 88, had died February 3 as a personable human being and a remarkable one par excellence.
The late Ojidoh made history as a specialist in education, child psychology, modern mathematics and sports administration, which led to his being made vice principal, director of Education until he voluntarily retired from active service in education in 1980 to enable him dedicate his full service to sports.
The officiating priest of St. John, the Evangelist Catholic Church, Rt. Rev’d Monsignor Dennis Arimoku, in his exhortation entitled ‘’Death a gain, not a loss’’, said death may be fearful, shaking but as human beings, we must face death, linking the death to that of Lazarus, who died and was carried by angels to Abraham’s bosom and comforted unlike the rich man.
Taking his sermon from John 11:25 and John 14:1, he said it is good for one to die knowing God, reminding that the people were rejoicing because Ojidoh professed his faith in Christ, had a covenant with Christ before he died.
He prayed God to give members of congregation the grace to prepare for death, he advised that all humans must seize the opportunity to communicate on a daily basis with God, prepare and not live carelessly and be in fellowship with God.
A day before the funeral mass and entertainment, there was a novelty match between Delta State Sports Writers’ Association of Nigeria (SWAN) and Illah selected side in honour of Ojidoh. Mr. Amaju Pinnick, board chairman, Delta State Sports Commission, said that for SWAN to organise a novelty match in honour of a great administrator like Ojidoh was commendable. He maintained that the commission would always be available to give the family the needed assistance.
However, not even the usual visits of dignitaries that usually accompanied the passage of such individuals who have had played prominent roles to play in the nation’ history was evident at the residence of Ojidoh. Edward Ojidoh, son, however said this was not a surprise, “Daddy came into the world, transversed it and left an indelible footprint on the sands of time and humanity. At a traditional circle, you were a symbol of justice, equity and fairness and apostle of peace. Whatever the assignment, you discharged it with utmost sense of passion.”
Among those who visited the residence were relatives and some colleagues of the departed administrator. One of them, Chief Amanze Uchegbulem, a former first vice president of NFF, said Ojidoh was the father of association football in Nigeria and that he spearheaded the drafting of the Football Association statutes, which gave birth to modern day association football.
But the most interesting thing was the tribute made by the managing director of Daily Independent Newspapers, Ted Iwere. Iwere, who is a son in law to the deceased, said he met his father-in-law when he was about getting married to his wife, Ngozi. ‘’He was easy going, a truly old young man, caring person. He nicknamed my wife Lady Jane. He was a very supportive father-in-law, who was interested seeing our children grow up. His mind, as always, remained as sharp as a razor till the last minute,’’ Iwere stated.
Ajoh N. John, on behalf of Ogbe-Ogede, described him as ‘’courage personified, next to the mind of Aristotle because he had a solution and philosophical explanation for every challenge. He was a great hero with extraordinary determination to achieve success. He was a great pillar to many through his fatherly advice, comfort and care.”
Similarly, Edward Ojidoh said when he was a baby, ‘’Daddy nursed me and trained me into what l am today. I am grateful for the opportunity to have been mentored by you. You showed me a place to stand and l stood. The legacy you left behind will ever remain indelible on earth.”
In her tribute, Lady May Inije, daughter of the deceased, said, “where do l begin my eulogy for a father that touched my life in so many ways? He was always there when we needed him. He gave particularly in moment of critical decisions such as in our education, career and marriage. He was our role model. He equipped us with the entire arsenal and above all, he gave us a good start in life where he defined the benchmarks, minimum standards and expectations, which have remained our divine force. “He never stopped worrying about us. In fact, dad was our best friend.”
Chuks Ojidoh, son, described his dad as “a very compassionate man, with great sense of duty and responsibility, a symbol of selfless humanity.”
‘’We have all despaired at our loss over the past weeks and only the strength of your good counsel and the exemplary fatherhood you gave us through the years will afford us the strength to carry on. Here was a man who personified grace and goodness. He acted without concern for himself and made life better for us all,” he said.
He was born on July 19, 1926, into the family of Maria and Okeleke Ojidoh. From 1935 to 1942, he attended Government School, Ogwashi-Uku and obtained the standard six certificate in 1942. He obtained his teachers’ higher elementary certificate in December 1949 and was appointed headmaster in January 1950. He proceeded to the University of Legon, Ghana, in October 1958 where he was awarded the associate diploma of the Institute of Education in July 1959.
He returned to Nigeria and attended the University of Ibadan between October 1960 and July 1962, obtaining a diploma in child psychology.
His quest for education took him to the University of Nairobi, Kenya, in the summers of 1966, 1967 and 1968 for the coveted ABC Mathematics Institute course. He attended coaching courses in football, earning a grade 1 coaching certificate.
He was headmaster of Roman Catholic School Okpara/Waterside and Roman Catholic School, Illah till 1955.
Ojidoh represented Nigeria in hurdles and football in Ghana. He was in 1968 appointed assistant inspector of Education in the Ministry of Education. From 1972, he served as assistant director of School Sports, Agbor zone.
As a committed football referee, he officiated in national league matches; he even took charge of Challenge Cup finals.
He was also appointed chairman of Bendel State Football Association; he led the government delegation to the 1987 FIFA Under-17 Championship in Canada. He was also a member of the delegation to China. He was appointed chairman of an electoral committee by the then minister of Sports, Steven Akiga, to conduct election into the board of NFA in 2002. He led the Delta State contingent to the National Sports Festival in Kaduna. He was a multiple award winner.
Mrs. T. Giwa Amu, who led other members of Enyi Asaba on the occasion, said they came to comfort the family of Ojidoh. Members of Christian Association of Nigeria, Knights of St. John International, Concerned Illah Sons and Daughters, staff of Independent Newspapers, Ministry of Sports and others were present at the event.